The Clements Family Life

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Wednesday Night out with Girls

On Wednesday night a group of us went out to celebrate our 2 friends' birthdays: Deana and Fiona (they are the first 2 on the right). We went to B.O.B. which stands for Bacardi Original Bar. It's right on the St Istvan Basilica square - where our 3 kids were christened - and it's a beautiful setting with pretty decent food but mediocre service. I think it's the location that makes the place great.

This was the view from my seat

Above left is Sam and Henrietta and above right are the 2 birthday girls

Me in the center with Kim and Jenny. Notice my new necklace that Curt got me in China. I love it! It's jade and amber and very cool and Chinese! I'm sure it means good luck - this is a joke as the Chinese think everything means good luck. Once Curt asked a group of Chinese while we were in Beijing, "So, what means bad luck?" They had no idea what he was talking about. As if something would mean 'bad luck'...

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Swimming Ali

Last week, May 13th (Wednesday), Ali's class at nursery invited all the parents, siblings, whomever to come and watch them swim. The school takes them every other week all year long for swimming lessons. It's helped Ali so much as she started developing a fear of the water from about the age of 2 years. I'm not sure what happened but when she was 1 1/2 she was great in the water, wore arm bands and swam all over by herself. I even showed her a video so she could see how well she did. She just laughed in disbelief. Anyhow, this year of swimming lessons has helped her so much. It'll make the summer in South Carolina so much more fun with her swimming along (or at least nearby instead of clinging onto my neck) with the rest of us! Here are some snaps and 3 videos of her classes swimming day. Curt even joined us as he was flying out to China in the afternoon so it was an extra special day. T and Mia were there as it was on a Wednesday and they have no school on Wednesdays (it's a French school thing).

Concentrating on her kicking with Brigi

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Meeting Baby Lucas

Yesterday (Sunday), we had the honor of meeting Aidan's new baby brother, Lucas Harman. Lucas is so sweet and tiny! He's not any tinier than most babies but you do forget how small 3 - 4 kilos of baby really is! On the day that we met him, Lucas was 9 days old! He's a sweet, very quiet baby! Not a peep or whine! Szilva and Jon - you are so very lucky!

Here are the photos:

Jon holding Lucas like he's a basketball...

Now, it's the Clements' turn to have a cuddle

Solo shots

T so wants a little brother! He played so well with Aidan.

He's such a big boy

And, Ali and Aidan really hit it off. Ali wanted to just mommy him and kept calling to him "Baby Aidan, Baby Aidan" then she would try and talk to him like a little mommy. It was very sweet.

The beautiful Harman family. Yes, Evy and Jon - I will send you hard copies very, very soon as this is a keeper!

It was a great afternoon at St Istvan Park in district XIII.

PS While we were there, Curt was on his flight back home from China. It was about a 15 hour journey for him with the flight change in Vienna.

Mia's Bank Account

At the end of April, on the 29th to be exact, Mia finally opened up her first bank account. The bank that Curt and I have an account at in Hungary is CIB Bank - an Italian bank. They allow children from the age of 6 years old to open up a bank account which Mia had to do. We discovered this with Terence but he didn't get his first bank account opened up until the age of 7 - shortly after his birthday. Mia had 6,520 HUF which she'd been saving up from pocket money and the tooth fairy's last 2 visits (she's only lost 2 teeth in total). This equals about $31 US. Since she opened up her bank account she has already gained .87 HUF in interest, deposited another 1,000HUF and received her first ATM card.

Here are some photos of our bank account opening experience. I'm so proud of Mia!

Friday, May 15, 2009

One of My Mother's Day Pressies

One of the best presents I received for Mother's Day is a very, very clean car. Curt first took the car to the filling station to get the tank filled and the outside washed. When he returned, he got all 3 kids to help him wash and vacuum the inside until it sparkled! They all took such pride in their work and worked as such a great team! I'm not sure if this was the better present or the clean car... Thanks Curt, T, Mia and Ali!

Ali's Scooter

Just took this about 1 1/2 hours ago when we walked down the street to pick up Mia from her friend's home. We had planned to all come home after school together as I am exhausted. However, Mia asked to go down the street to Olivia's home to play. Olivia is a classmate and a very good friend. The best part is she lives a block away so it's easy for spontaneous play dates.

Below is Ali with her new favorite mode of transportation. This scooter was first Mia's (thanks to my brother and his wife who bought it several years ago for x-mas) but it is now too small for Mia so Ali uses it all the time.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

She Spins me Round, Round, Baby, Round, Round

On Sunday we had a group of friends around for a bbq in the afternoon. It was the perfect summer day with temps reaching almost 30 degrees C in the mid-afternoon. It was exactly what we all needed! In total there were 9 kids and they all got along fantastically. They spent the day in and out of the pool; on and off the trampoline; on and off the doombuggy; in and out of the jacuzzi (they thought the pool was too cold so they decided to all swim in the jacuzzi ;-)... It was the perfect day.

Martha, who is 10 years old and at the British School, adores our little Ali. Ali, of course, adores Martha too. Actually, Martha, Ali and Mia all love being together and often are as Curt and I really like their parents and Terence loves her 2 brothers, Tom and Oli. Tom is Terence's age and they spend a lot of nights sleeping at each other's homes. Tom is one of the first boys T's age that he immediately hit it off with so it bonded the families together quickly. The other great thing is that Tom, Martha and Oli are probably all going to start at the French school from September so we'll have more in common.

Anyhow, during the party on Sunday, I looked across the backyard and noticed Martha repeatedly spinning Ali around over and over again. Ali, of course, loved it even though a few times (including in this video) I thought her little arms would get pulled out of their sockets. They were excited when I ran over to video them and immediately wanted an instant replay to watch themselves...

Our Moscow Office

I am almost done with catching up on all of our Moscow activity... I promise. The last 2 photos I have to share are of our office. This is, after all, the main reason that we went to Moscow. Curt and I are slowly getting around to all of our offices. Many of which we have not been to in years. So it's time we go and meet the staff and help give support and further training on our company's vision. I enjoy the presenting, training and team building aspect of my job a lot - especially to a young, motivated team like we currently have in Moscow.

This is John Heisler with Curt outside of our office building

This is our team (minus one person who was on an orientation tour with a client's assignee)

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Mila and Roman's Home in Moscow

On Wednesday night, we were invited to Mila and Roman's home for dinner. The last time we've seen the 2 of them was at their wedding in Moscow in 1997! Curt worked with Mila and Dennis (he also joined us for dinner) when he first started Move One (formerly AES) in the early 90s. It was so great to have a reunion with all of them but we wish it happened more frequently. Mila, Roman and Dennis all look great and we also had the pleasure to meet Mila and Roman's adorable 2 boys (ages 8 and 5) and eat their delicious food. The Georgian dumplings and the Tiramisu were my favorites! I think the Georgian dumplings are called something like Khinkali but I will have to confirm with Mila.

Anyhow, here are our photos from the evening.

Their apartment complex

Their 2 sons playing - all kids everywhere love playing computer games. They also had a PSP (playstation portable).

Back together again. From r - l: Dennis, Mila, Curt and Roman

Their youngest son was a little flirt and warmed up to us as the evening went on. I was very flattered to receive his favorite blanket while C received his teddy bear. A sign of true friendship!

The 2nd photo is of vodka shots at dinnertime. 3 of the 4 men (Zoltan is the one on the left) managed to finish off 2 bottles of vodka.

Mila and Roman with their younger son who went by Gere (I may not be spelling this correctly). He's the one with the blanket and teddy.

All of us together. I have to find the photo of all of us (including Dennis' wife) from 1997! When I do I will add to the blog so you can compare and see how we've all changed in the last 12 years!

Visiting the Fekete's in Moscow

When we arrived at the Fekete's home in Moscow on Tuesday evening their 3 kids and 3 friends from the neighborhood and school were all on the trampoline. It's every kids favorite backyard enterntainment!

And Imola spoiling us with homemade PASTA! Yum - it was fabulous!

Their beautiful house.

The 4 Fekete kids: Sophie, Sonya, Sean and Sara.
Sophie just downloaded a book onto their Kindle. It's an amazing little electronic gadget and holds 100s of books electronically. The screen has no light (keeping your eyes safe) and looks like the page of a real book. It took only minutes for her to get the book she wanted onto her Kindle!

Vodka (or is it Palinka) time. John Heisler joined us too.

Us and the Feketes with great Magyar bor ('wine' in English)

Thanks for a great evening John and Imola!!! I wish we could do it weekly!

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QUOTES OF THE DAY:

Today, July 1 2010 while driving through McD's drive through Terence and I got to talking about what a job at McD's would be like. I told him that my brother worked there and that was one of his first jobs. I explained how he was in charge of the french fries and used to come home with lots of grease burns. T told me that if he ever worked at McD's he wouldn't be able to work on the Big Mac assemblies as they would all end up disappearing. The Big Mac is his favorite!! He's not a french fry kind of guy, just a burger boy!

June 10, 2010. Ali has been a bit curious about dying lately. Fortunately, she doesn't remember anyone close to us that has died but she hears Mia and T sometimes talking about it. The other day, she came up to me very sad and said, "Mama, I don't want you to die." I told her that I don't want to die either and this is why I have to exercise and take care of myself so that I can stay alive and healthy longer. She nodded in agreement and then, while playing with my pink wallet on the table, she followed up with, "Mama, if you DO die, can I please have your wallet?" Glad she jumped back so quickly...

Today, May 24 2010, is a public holiday (Pentecost). Ali woke up - only at 9am - and since she had no idea of the time I reminded her that there was no school today. She smiled and said, "Yeah! I'm going to stay in my pjs ALL day". Later she asked me about the cat's birthday. I told her I did not know. She then asked me when Blue, our border collie's bday is. I told her it was in August. She smiled and said, "Let's have a birthday party for him. What kind of cake do you think we should make for his party?" We decided to make him a dog food cake! However, she is now trying to figure out if it is better to give him a cake with or without candles...

This Saturday morning (April 17, 2010) I am at home with Ali while Curt is doing the dance and football taxi service. My main responsibility is to work on our US visit travel schedule (flights, rental cars, hotels, etc.) It always takes a lot of coordination but it's all worth it as we love our summer returns to the US. Anyhow, I was telling Ali what I was doing and she asked me to remind her who we were going to see again. The main people I mentioned were Nana, Papa, Aunt Sally and Uncle Mike as these are the first people we will visit. I asked her what we should take to Nana for her birthday present. She thought for a second. Then, her eyes grew wide as she thought of a great idea. Her animated answer (she always uses lots of hand motions when talking - is that from me?) was, 'A nice hat, a scarf and if you have a dress that you out grow then we can take it for her!'. Funny little monkey... Don't worry Nana, I won't be bringing you any hand-me-downs! x o x o

Yesterday (Feb 24, 2010), while Ali went to visit her old nursery school, I took Terence and Mia for lunch before picking up T's new passport at the US embassy. There is this little cafe that I really love and they have great wraps, onion rings (I have a weakness for good onion rings), burgers, salads, smoothies, coffees, etc. Terence decided on a plain burger with onion rings and Mia decided on a bacon cheeseburger with onion rings. I got a smoothie and hoped for some bites of both of theirs... When the burgers arrived, they both lifted off the top bun and frowned. T grunted, "I asked for a plain burger. Not a burger with this sauce!" The sauce was sort of a 1000 island dressing type of tangy sauce. Mia pouted about this matter, too. I immediately got upset with them and told them not to judge it until they tried it. Then, I followed with, "you both need to become more adaptable." After a second of silence, Mia told me she was going to tell dad. I asked her to clarify and she told me that she was going to tell dad what I had said. Again, I asked her to clarify as I hadn't said anything rude or even a bad word (I sometimes have trouble with the latter). She then told me very angrily, "I'm going to tell dad that you want us to be adopted!" Adapted ... Adopted ... Pretty close!

During our ski trip to Schladming, Ali and I often spent some time together in the afternoon (after her morning ski school) drinking hot chocolate at the top in one of the restaurants. One afternoon she made a funny observation. Actually, she made 2 observations that went like this: "Ma!" she began. After I responded "yes", she asked me, "why are there some teenagers working here?" Before I had time to answer, she asked me another question. "And, why are there so many teenagers kissing?!" I looked around and there were 2 young couples nearby kissing... on the mouth! She was very interested. I answered to her that many teenagers worked when they were on break from school and regarding the teenagers that are kissing, they must love each other. She took this in and thought for a while. I told her that I'd like it if she also worked when she became a teenager and asked her what she thinks she'd like to do. The response has had us giggling for a few days. With little hesitation, she answered that she wanted to be a penguin when she was a teenager. I asked her where she would work as a teenager and who would pay her money. She thought for only a second and then answered, "the Four Seasons Hotel. They will pay me and I'll work there." I bit my tongue and asked her what she would do in the Four Seasons dressed as a penguin. She looked at me like I was an idiot and said, "Ma! I would swim!" She said this with a slight roll of her eyes like I was born yesterday. What else would a penguin in the Four Seasons be doing???

Just yesterday (Sept 18, 2009) I heard Ali saying to Mia, "drink me". I had to turn around and see what they were talking about. Mia was holding Ali's cup while she sipped out of it. Ali must have thought 'drink me' was the way to ask to be fed (?) a drink. We do say 'feed me' but what do we say if it's a drink item and not a food item?

The other day (early June 2009) the girls were taking a bath together and Mia blurted out "Oh Man" about something. Ali thought she was referring to her as a 'man' and shouted back at Mia, "Me not a MAN, me a LADY!" For obvious reasons I have never called her a 'lady' but she's somehow picked the word up. Loved how she defended herself as being a lady...

Yesterday, March 31st 2009, Terence, Ali and I were sitting at the table and talking. Terence made a joke about going to jail. After Ali laughed, I asked her if she knew what 'jail' was. She answered 'yes'. So, I asked her if jail was a place for good guys or bad guys. She correctly answered 'bad guys'. Then, I asked her, "How does Brigi call 'jail'"? I know this is correct but this is the way Ali would understand me asking how would she say 'jail' in Hungarian. Brigi, by the way, is her Hungarian nursery school teacher who she has a very close relationship with. Her answer to my question, "How does Brigi call jail?" was "with a telephone".... Very clever she is...

This afternoon (Jan 28, 2009) Ali pulled out a DVD and asked, 'we watch this when dada come home?' I looked at it and said, 'Ali, that's not a good one for you. It's a little scary.' (it was Men in Black II). She had recognized it and was ready with her quick reply: 'Don't worry (pronounced woowwee) Mama. Me cover my one eye with a pillow (piwwow).'

On Ali's birthday (Jan 24, 2009) while we were driving to Aquaworld, I turned around and offered the kids a stick of gum. I guess normally I / we say a 'piece' of gum. Curt then followed up with a joke asking if any of them wanted a 'stick of dynamite'. The girls were a bit confused but T, without missing a beat, said 'we can't buy dynamite, only people like miners can buy sticks of dynamite.' This is something he got out of one of his books that he loves to read. I believe it's the Richard Scarry What do People do All Day book that he has practically memorized and still goes to bed reading it and examining all the detailed pictures every night.

This morning (Jan 27, 2009) when we were hunting for Ali's shoes for school she looked outside and said, 'Mama, it's raining'. I turned to look out the window she was looking out and replied, 'Ali, I don't see rain'. She then followed up with something in Hungarian that I didn't understand. When I asked her to repeat it she looked at me, switched back to English and said 'It starts snowing after Halloween'. Not sure what this meant, why she said it, how she even remembered what Halloween was as that was ages ago in her little lifetime. Very sweet.

Mia's newest line (as of this first week in Sept 2008) is "I'm having the worst day ever". She's also been saying, "I feel like an idiot". She tends to say the latter when she's feeling a bit shy or lost for words. The first one is usually after she falls, stubs her toes, gets hurt or drops something. I have no idea where either lines have come from. Very funny to hear a 5 year old talk like this...

Every summer we take our 3 kids back to the US to re-familiarize (I'm sure this isn't a word...) them with their American roots. They were born in Europe and have only lived in Hungary their entire lives. Terence, our 7 year old, knows he's American. However, sometimes when he's asked 'Are you English?' he answers 'yes'. I think I've finally gotten it through to him that just because he speaks English doesn't mean he is English. In America (and several other countries), English is spoken... He now gets it and corrects people if they guess he's English. You may think that they would recognize his American accent but I think this misunderstanding usually happens when he is speaking Hungarian or French.

Mia, on the other hand, thinks we are Hungarian. When we were talking about Hungary beating America for the gold medal in water polo, she shouted out 'Yeah, we won!'. We had to explain that Hungary won and not America and we are American. She answered something about us living in Hungary which makes us Hungarian. Needless to say, she is a work in progress.

Then there is Ali who is only 2 1/2 and is still trying to not mix up English with Hungarian in her speech so she has no idea where she's from but will in time.

Anyhow, going back to our trips to the US. Curt and I like to give them an all-American cultural experience whenever we are in the US which includes baseball games, summer camp, carnivals, dunking machines, donuts, bagels, catching lightning bugs, looking for Cardinals and Blue Jays, spotting alligators in the lakes in Kiawah and this year a rodeo and a demolition derby. In addition to introducing our American favorite pastimes to them, we also have to teach them how to talk about it. For example, when our plane was landing in Kansas City on July 4th 2008 we had a perfectly clear day and could see everything. Terence looked out the plane's window and in his loud voice shouted to me, "Look at that baseball court mom!" I could hear heads turning wondering why the American accented boy who should be in at least his 3rd or 4th year of little league just called it a baseball 'court'. Well, that was at the beginning of our US summer trip... ;-)

Tonight (July 11, 2008) on our way home from the Sedgwick state fair (hee haw), Ali shouted from the back seat, "Mama, home now! Me tired!" It was about 9:30pm so way past her bedtime. I told her that we were on our way home (or at least Nana and Papa's) and would be there soon. I followed up with something about daddy is driving as fast as he can. Then, she shouted, "Dada, faster!" She is so funny and so expressive. It's funny to hear her bark her commands. And, when she is tired, she tells us....

This morning (June 24, 2008) as Mia was changing from her PJs to her school clothes I noticed her PJs had several holes in them. I mentioned it to Mia and suggested that maybe we just toss them in the garbage as it was so torn and damaged (plus small on her) that it wouldn't be easy to repair. Mia nodded her head in agreement but then asked me to do one favor for her. She asked, "Mama, can you please just toss them after I go to school? If I'm not here, I won't see it and then I can't get sad."

One morning while we were near Notre Dame in Paris (May 29, 2008), a group of school kids walked by where we were sitting. I heard T say to Liam, "Don't they sound like the kids at the French school?" Gee, I wonder why? haha

Two nights ago (around March 27, 2008) while Terence was getting ready for bed he said, "Mama, you know what?" He always begins his stories like this. After I asked 'what?' he proceeded by telling me the sweetest thing. He said, "I really like being a kid". I have no idea where this came from or why it occured to him at this point but I think it was really sweet. I know earlier in the evening his stomach was hurting him a bit and I was nurturing and taking care of him. I think maybe that is why he decided that being a kid and having a mom (and dad) take care of him when he needed it was okay!

Mia woke up crying 2 mornings ago. She was actually whimpering. I gently stroked her back and kissed her face while whispering in her ear "Mia, you're dreaming. Wake up. It's okay. I'm here. It's mama and I'm here". I repeated these soothing words over and over until she half opened her eyes and started mumbling. I leaned in to try and hear her better. I asked her what was upsetting her. She then said a bit more clearly, "The Easter Bunny pulled my hair!" Oh no. Poor Mia. "Why did the Easter Bunny pull your hair?". "He came in through the bedroom door and pulled my hair while I was sleeping in bed!" I reassured her that the Easter Bunny would NEVER do such a thing. I explained how gentle and giving good ole EB is. However, this morning (2 days later) she asked me how many 'night-nights' until Easter. I told her it was 2 weeks away (aka about 14 night-nights away). She then looked relieved and then asked me if she could get her hair cut short!!

I've been wanting to add another funny Mia quote that occurred over our New Year's (Dec 2007/Jan 2008) ski holiday. One night when Mia was having trouble falling asleep she crawled in between Curt and I as we were still awake talking. She explained that she couldn't fall asleep so we told her she could stay in our bed until she did. She closed her eyes for a couple of minutes and then started smacking herself in the head with both hands. I asked her what she was doing and she replied that she couldn't get it to stop. Curt and I were confused and asked her to elaborate. She said, 'I can't get the voices in my head to stop'. It was so funny as I immediately knew it was her thinking that was in her head. Curt asked her what the 'voices' were saying and she said it sounded like 'blah, blah, blah, blah, blah'. Curt couldn't resist by saying that he knew the feeling!

Last week (January 10, 2008) Mia came with me to the Indian Embassy in Budapest to pick up Curt's and my passports with Indian visas. She always makes me laugh as she's full of questions but never discreet. One of those kids that have to announce to an entire room that she has to go to the bathroom - even though she's only talking to me. While at the Indian Embassy she looked around at this new environment taking everything in. She had so many questions, "Mommy, what's that for?" or "Why is that over there?" She then noticed two paintings. At about the same time as she noticed them one of the consulates sat down next to her and said 'hi'. She returned the gesture with a shy 'hi' and then turned back to me to ask me who those people are in that painting. I had no clue and didn't want to embarrass myself in front of this Indian embassy employee. So, I asked him if he could answer my daughter's question. He looked at her and said, "That's our president". So then I showed Mia the map of India and told her that was the country we were going to. She returned her attention to the man and the woman in the painting and asked who the woman was assuming it was the man who was the president (reminder - she's still not 5 years old). The nice man had to explain that it was the woman who was the president and the man was the prime minister. Then Mia had to ask why the president had the red dot on her forehead and the prime minister had the pretty blue scarf (turban) on his head. She then saw a statue of Ghandi and asked me who he was. I knew that answer but had trouble explaining in 5 year old language why he was so famous. On and on and on she went... She had all the employees listening and entertained as not only was she interested but she was extremely complimentary. Many kids would say, 'that's weird or strange' but Mia found it all interesting and beautiful. They loved that she thought the turban was pretty, the red dot looked nice on the president and in another very Indian photo the traditionally dressed Indian woman looked so pretty with her gold bangles, henna covered hands, and gold outfit. Phew, I was on the edge of my seat nervous she would say something that might not be so kind. Instead she left them all with a smile on their faces and a very proud mom!

Yesterday (Nov 23, 2007) Terence came up to me and said, "Mom, I know America is one of the newest countries in the world but which is the oldest?" I said, "I'm not really sure but what do you think?" This kid is too much. He replied, "I'm not sure either but I would guess China." Not sure if this is right or wrong but it amazes me that he can even come up with something that is a really good guess. Will google it tonight for sure! If anyone knows, please send me the answer.

Last night (Oct 19, 2007) Terence asked me the loaded question: Do we come back to earth after we die? We spent a long time after the girls went to bed talking about it. I explained how different people believed different things and what I believe is that we do. He then asked me if we'd still come back as a family. I realized he had tears in his eyes with worry that he'd have to be part of another family so I answered 'yes'.

Terence asked me the other day why so many ants were eating our tree. He asked how they got onto our property when we have a fence all around it.

In first grade Terence is working on days of the week and months of the year. I asked him to recite what he's learned in French. After he said the days of the week perfectly I asked if he knew them in English. He couldn't think of them but suddenly I heard Mia's voice without hesitation say, 'Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday... etc'

Ali's word of the day was purple yesterday. Okay, so it didn't really sound like purple but it did sound like 'poopoa'. We were both wearing purple shirts and I pointed it out to her. That's how she repeated it after me.