The Clements Family Life

Monday, April 5, 2010

More Visitors

This must be the month for visitors. Last weekend we had our friends Eric and Lesley with their 2 daughters spend 3 nights with us while traveling around Europe. Eric and Lesley used to live in Budapest (then Belgrade) but returned to the US about 4 or 5 years ago. It was great having them spend a long weekend with us. Their 2 daughters (ages 8 and 6) got along with our trio so perfectly. We're not really sure if they all remember each other at all. The last time we all got together was about 1 1/2 years ago. This was really rare as within about 10 mins of them arriving - last Friday night - their daughters completely hit it off with ALL three of our kids. I was worried that maybe Terence or Ali would feel left out but the 5 of them played fantastically all weekend long! As always, they were great guests to have.

Below are some photos of our outdoor lunch up at Normafa Cafe and Grill last weekend. Austin is with us as he arrived earlier that day. It was a delicious lunch and the kids enjoyed playing hide and seek in their large outdoor play area.

PS Notice Ali on Austin's lap... This was only day 1... (fyi - she's a bit shy). They developed a strong, quick bond. She misses him so much!

Mia had a cat face painted from her dance class earlier that day. Their class dressed in full costume and make-up with a photographer there taking snaps for the moms and dads to purchase closer to the recital time (early June).

Wearing Daddy's shades as it was very sunny...

Our Visitors

Curt and I are practicing being parents of teenagers and it is a whole different experience. We had my fantastic nephew, Austin, here in Budapest for 8 days. He was a great guest and we loved getting to know him better and showing him an entirely new world. It was his first visit to Budapest and it was so fun. He's the coolest 17 year old around! Love, love, love him!!! We were all very sad to say good-bye to him and today Ali (4) just told me - out of the blue - that she missed Austin so much. Cute!

Colleen is our other fantastic teenage visitor. We are friends with Colleen's parents who live near Kiawah, South Carolina where we spend our summers. She is 19 and here for a few weeks. The two of them became friends quickly and spent some time exploring Budapest night life. Here are a couple snaps of them heading out for the evening.

Easter Morning

Happy Easter Everyone!

Easter sprung up so quickly this year. We've been so, so, so busy. I managed to get some decorations up, organize an Easter lunch bbq and prepare for the Easter bunny's visit - but just barely. Sadly, my nephew had to fly home this morning (boo hoo). Poor guy had to get in his taxi for the airport at 5am...

We didn't get around to coloring Easter eggs but maybe we can do it this week. Does it really matter that it is on Easter or just around the same time??

The kids went to bed very excited about the Easter bunny's visit. Terence, however, was in on the big secret so helped out a lot.

In the morning, the girls woke up at a very early hour (7am) and managed to stay inside until we finally crawled out of bed at 8am. Then, out the door they went to hunt for their eggs and look through their baskets that the Easter bunny left on the outdoor table. The 4th one is for Colleen. A family friend who is visiting us from South Carolina for the next couple of weeks. Colleen is 19 years old.

The kids hunted for about 30 mins (okay, maybe it was more like 10 mins) for their 60 eggs!

Some Easter decorations. Nothing better than peanut m&ms. I always have to get them in the holiday colors and put them out. Adore these pastel colors that they put out for Easter.

And, the flowers popping up in my garden. Love spring!! Aren't they so pretty?

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Happy Birthday Terence

Since Curt had to travel on T's birthday (March 29th), we decided to take him out for dinner on Saturday night (March 27th). Each kid gets to choose birthday party or dinner / evening alone with mom and dad. T always chooses the latter. This year he chose TG Italiano for dinner which was fantastic.

My nephew, Austin, flew in earlier that day and was a trooper about staying awake and joining us (per T's wish)! He also invited one of his buddies along with us too.

All in all, it was a perfect night at TG Italiano. Before dinner, T had requested that we go up to Challenge Land, a great repelling obstacle course in the trees. Unfortunately, we couldn't make it before they closed so instead we went to see the incredible DreamWorks animation: How to Train Your Dragon. We highly recommend it!

Pictures from Challenge Land are coming soon as we finally made it there on Sunday. In the meantime, here are a few great photos from Saturday night...

T adores their mango and pineapple smoothies!

We managed to surprise him with a cake. The entire restaurant (or at least the section surrounding our table) sang along to the DJ's Happy Birthday CD! T was SO, SO, SO surprised! He actually wanted to leave about 15 mins before the cake came out and we kept making excuses why we had to wait around a bit longer. He later laughed about us tricking him and surprising him. He loved it! And, so did we!

Look at the sequence of events when the cake came out... Thankfully Curt managed to capture them all on film

He has no idea and then he looks up... Ta Da!

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

FOR PAPA

I just scrolled down on our blog and realized the video for Papa had Terence cut out of it. If you want to view the full sized video, please click on this link below on YouTube.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtjm87dHheM

Sorry about that. I hope you didn't think I'd intentionally cut T out of it...

x o x o

Austin is Here

On Saturday, my nephew, Austin, arrived to Budapest for his first ever visit. We are so excited to have him here. However, it's only for a short 1 week visit (boo hoo). It's great he managed to be here for Terence's birthday (yesterday)!

Here are just a few photos from our weekend.

Austin with me and my other brother, Robert.

Monday, March 22, 2010

Weekend Update

We had such a fantastic weekend! The weather has finally broken and spring has sprung. What a relief. I know many of you are still up to your eyeballs with winter weather but for Hungary, this was a very, very long winter.

Our weekend was packed with fun. Friday was family movie night. Saturday morning was football for T and dance for Mia. Then, we had to buy a new bed for all our guests arriving. Our former guest room bed was given away so now we had to get a new one as our guest room is quite full over the next few months. We accomplished this pretty quickly then went to get Mia, Charlie (T's buddy) and Molly (Ali's BFF) from their home. Mia had went over to their home after dance so that we only had 2 kids while shopping for home furnishings.

The weather was fantastic and the kids all played outdoors. Mia and I went on a long walk (she rode her scooter) with the dogs. She went later on a bike ride with Curt. Then, she played football (sorry, soccer to the Americans) in the backyard with Curt. Both she and T picked out new soccer balls on Wednesday. She is sooo into it and begs Curt regularly to kick with her!

One of the cool things about them picking out their new soccer balls was there were several European countries (printed on the balls) to choose from. They both picked Italia because of Papa! I told them I was partially British but Italia won! We had to write their names on their balls as they both had to have the same one. Mia's even taken hers to school to play with on the playground. This was me as a child. A complete sport nut! I always had one or more of the following with me in my neighborhood as a child: skateboard, bike, tennis racket, football or baseball mitt. The difference with Mia is she too is a sports nut but still has to dress very girlie. It's quite a combination! Check her out on Sunday playing.

On Saturday, we had a full house. I loved watching crazy Ali with crazy Molly. I guess with crazy moms like me and Kim, what else would you expect? They were absolutely hilarious and kept themselves entertained all day!

Check out how goofy they behaved on the trampoline on Saturday!

no idea what they both were doing in this funny photo above

They stripped down to their underpants, had a picnic (crackers, tomatoes and grapes), jumped around, then they put their underpants on their heads (no photo of this), swamped outfits and came inside announcing their newly swapped identities.

They are 2 peas in a pod! Love them!

Additionally, our troops stayed up until midnight on Saturday as we went over to our friends' home for a delicious dinner. It was a great night with a fantastic Norwegian family with 3 children (ages 11, 9 and 6). The kids all clicked (first time for them all to meet as we've only socialized with the parents) so well! The dinner consisted of freshly flown in Norwegian salmon that was grilled on the bbq to perfection!

Sunday lunch was great as we went downtown to TGs for Italian food. We met up with some great friends of ours who we hadn't seen in almost 3 months (they also travel a lot for work). Then, we hit the Szabadsag ter playground that our kids enjoy so much. We sent a few mothers home clenching their hearts after seeing our kids without socks, hats, jackets, etc. It was almost 20 degrees C here yesterday yet their children were all bundled up as if they were expecting a cold frost to rush in!

Have a great weekend everyone.

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Sisterly Love

I don't have any sisters. I've always wondered what it would be like and always wished I had a sister. What's great is that I have 2 daughters so they have that unique bond that I've always wondered about. Don't get me wrong, they do have their tiffs once in a while. Sometimes they even hit each other. However 90% of the time, they adore each other. I used to think Mia was the nurturing one but I really think it works both ways.

Here are a few recent pictures of my two favorite girls in the entire world!

The first set are from Saturday - the weather has finally gotten spring-like and warmer!! Ali picked out her outfit with lots of color.

The other morning when Curt went up to wake up the girls for school (at about 7am), this is how he found them sleeping!!!

They share the same room and sometimes if Ali doesn't sleep well or has a bad dream, she'll crawl into bed with Mia. This took the pie!

This is Ali's beautiful face when she just wakes up.

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QUOTES OF THE DAY:

Today, July 1 2010 while driving through McD's drive through Terence and I got to talking about what a job at McD's would be like. I told him that my brother worked there and that was one of his first jobs. I explained how he was in charge of the french fries and used to come home with lots of grease burns. T told me that if he ever worked at McD's he wouldn't be able to work on the Big Mac assemblies as they would all end up disappearing. The Big Mac is his favorite!! He's not a french fry kind of guy, just a burger boy!

June 10, 2010. Ali has been a bit curious about dying lately. Fortunately, she doesn't remember anyone close to us that has died but she hears Mia and T sometimes talking about it. The other day, she came up to me very sad and said, "Mama, I don't want you to die." I told her that I don't want to die either and this is why I have to exercise and take care of myself so that I can stay alive and healthy longer. She nodded in agreement and then, while playing with my pink wallet on the table, she followed up with, "Mama, if you DO die, can I please have your wallet?" Glad she jumped back so quickly...

Today, May 24 2010, is a public holiday (Pentecost). Ali woke up - only at 9am - and since she had no idea of the time I reminded her that there was no school today. She smiled and said, "Yeah! I'm going to stay in my pjs ALL day". Later she asked me about the cat's birthday. I told her I did not know. She then asked me when Blue, our border collie's bday is. I told her it was in August. She smiled and said, "Let's have a birthday party for him. What kind of cake do you think we should make for his party?" We decided to make him a dog food cake! However, she is now trying to figure out if it is better to give him a cake with or without candles...

This Saturday morning (April 17, 2010) I am at home with Ali while Curt is doing the dance and football taxi service. My main responsibility is to work on our US visit travel schedule (flights, rental cars, hotels, etc.) It always takes a lot of coordination but it's all worth it as we love our summer returns to the US. Anyhow, I was telling Ali what I was doing and she asked me to remind her who we were going to see again. The main people I mentioned were Nana, Papa, Aunt Sally and Uncle Mike as these are the first people we will visit. I asked her what we should take to Nana for her birthday present. She thought for a second. Then, her eyes grew wide as she thought of a great idea. Her animated answer (she always uses lots of hand motions when talking - is that from me?) was, 'A nice hat, a scarf and if you have a dress that you out grow then we can take it for her!'. Funny little monkey... Don't worry Nana, I won't be bringing you any hand-me-downs! x o x o

Yesterday (Feb 24, 2010), while Ali went to visit her old nursery school, I took Terence and Mia for lunch before picking up T's new passport at the US embassy. There is this little cafe that I really love and they have great wraps, onion rings (I have a weakness for good onion rings), burgers, salads, smoothies, coffees, etc. Terence decided on a plain burger with onion rings and Mia decided on a bacon cheeseburger with onion rings. I got a smoothie and hoped for some bites of both of theirs... When the burgers arrived, they both lifted off the top bun and frowned. T grunted, "I asked for a plain burger. Not a burger with this sauce!" The sauce was sort of a 1000 island dressing type of tangy sauce. Mia pouted about this matter, too. I immediately got upset with them and told them not to judge it until they tried it. Then, I followed with, "you both need to become more adaptable." After a second of silence, Mia told me she was going to tell dad. I asked her to clarify and she told me that she was going to tell dad what I had said. Again, I asked her to clarify as I hadn't said anything rude or even a bad word (I sometimes have trouble with the latter). She then told me very angrily, "I'm going to tell dad that you want us to be adopted!" Adapted ... Adopted ... Pretty close!

During our ski trip to Schladming, Ali and I often spent some time together in the afternoon (after her morning ski school) drinking hot chocolate at the top in one of the restaurants. One afternoon she made a funny observation. Actually, she made 2 observations that went like this: "Ma!" she began. After I responded "yes", she asked me, "why are there some teenagers working here?" Before I had time to answer, she asked me another question. "And, why are there so many teenagers kissing?!" I looked around and there were 2 young couples nearby kissing... on the mouth! She was very interested. I answered to her that many teenagers worked when they were on break from school and regarding the teenagers that are kissing, they must love each other. She took this in and thought for a while. I told her that I'd like it if she also worked when she became a teenager and asked her what she thinks she'd like to do. The response has had us giggling for a few days. With little hesitation, she answered that she wanted to be a penguin when she was a teenager. I asked her where she would work as a teenager and who would pay her money. She thought for only a second and then answered, "the Four Seasons Hotel. They will pay me and I'll work there." I bit my tongue and asked her what she would do in the Four Seasons dressed as a penguin. She looked at me like I was an idiot and said, "Ma! I would swim!" She said this with a slight roll of her eyes like I was born yesterday. What else would a penguin in the Four Seasons be doing???

Just yesterday (Sept 18, 2009) I heard Ali saying to Mia, "drink me". I had to turn around and see what they were talking about. Mia was holding Ali's cup while she sipped out of it. Ali must have thought 'drink me' was the way to ask to be fed (?) a drink. We do say 'feed me' but what do we say if it's a drink item and not a food item?

The other day (early June 2009) the girls were taking a bath together and Mia blurted out "Oh Man" about something. Ali thought she was referring to her as a 'man' and shouted back at Mia, "Me not a MAN, me a LADY!" For obvious reasons I have never called her a 'lady' but she's somehow picked the word up. Loved how she defended herself as being a lady...

Yesterday, March 31st 2009, Terence, Ali and I were sitting at the table and talking. Terence made a joke about going to jail. After Ali laughed, I asked her if she knew what 'jail' was. She answered 'yes'. So, I asked her if jail was a place for good guys or bad guys. She correctly answered 'bad guys'. Then, I asked her, "How does Brigi call 'jail'"? I know this is correct but this is the way Ali would understand me asking how would she say 'jail' in Hungarian. Brigi, by the way, is her Hungarian nursery school teacher who she has a very close relationship with. Her answer to my question, "How does Brigi call jail?" was "with a telephone".... Very clever she is...

This afternoon (Jan 28, 2009) Ali pulled out a DVD and asked, 'we watch this when dada come home?' I looked at it and said, 'Ali, that's not a good one for you. It's a little scary.' (it was Men in Black II). She had recognized it and was ready with her quick reply: 'Don't worry (pronounced woowwee) Mama. Me cover my one eye with a pillow (piwwow).'

On Ali's birthday (Jan 24, 2009) while we were driving to Aquaworld, I turned around and offered the kids a stick of gum. I guess normally I / we say a 'piece' of gum. Curt then followed up with a joke asking if any of them wanted a 'stick of dynamite'. The girls were a bit confused but T, without missing a beat, said 'we can't buy dynamite, only people like miners can buy sticks of dynamite.' This is something he got out of one of his books that he loves to read. I believe it's the Richard Scarry What do People do All Day book that he has practically memorized and still goes to bed reading it and examining all the detailed pictures every night.

This morning (Jan 27, 2009) when we were hunting for Ali's shoes for school she looked outside and said, 'Mama, it's raining'. I turned to look out the window she was looking out and replied, 'Ali, I don't see rain'. She then followed up with something in Hungarian that I didn't understand. When I asked her to repeat it she looked at me, switched back to English and said 'It starts snowing after Halloween'. Not sure what this meant, why she said it, how she even remembered what Halloween was as that was ages ago in her little lifetime. Very sweet.

Mia's newest line (as of this first week in Sept 2008) is "I'm having the worst day ever". She's also been saying, "I feel like an idiot". She tends to say the latter when she's feeling a bit shy or lost for words. The first one is usually after she falls, stubs her toes, gets hurt or drops something. I have no idea where either lines have come from. Very funny to hear a 5 year old talk like this...

Every summer we take our 3 kids back to the US to re-familiarize (I'm sure this isn't a word...) them with their American roots. They were born in Europe and have only lived in Hungary their entire lives. Terence, our 7 year old, knows he's American. However, sometimes when he's asked 'Are you English?' he answers 'yes'. I think I've finally gotten it through to him that just because he speaks English doesn't mean he is English. In America (and several other countries), English is spoken... He now gets it and corrects people if they guess he's English. You may think that they would recognize his American accent but I think this misunderstanding usually happens when he is speaking Hungarian or French.

Mia, on the other hand, thinks we are Hungarian. When we were talking about Hungary beating America for the gold medal in water polo, she shouted out 'Yeah, we won!'. We had to explain that Hungary won and not America and we are American. She answered something about us living in Hungary which makes us Hungarian. Needless to say, she is a work in progress.

Then there is Ali who is only 2 1/2 and is still trying to not mix up English with Hungarian in her speech so she has no idea where she's from but will in time.

Anyhow, going back to our trips to the US. Curt and I like to give them an all-American cultural experience whenever we are in the US which includes baseball games, summer camp, carnivals, dunking machines, donuts, bagels, catching lightning bugs, looking for Cardinals and Blue Jays, spotting alligators in the lakes in Kiawah and this year a rodeo and a demolition derby. In addition to introducing our American favorite pastimes to them, we also have to teach them how to talk about it. For example, when our plane was landing in Kansas City on July 4th 2008 we had a perfectly clear day and could see everything. Terence looked out the plane's window and in his loud voice shouted to me, "Look at that baseball court mom!" I could hear heads turning wondering why the American accented boy who should be in at least his 3rd or 4th year of little league just called it a baseball 'court'. Well, that was at the beginning of our US summer trip... ;-)

Tonight (July 11, 2008) on our way home from the Sedgwick state fair (hee haw), Ali shouted from the back seat, "Mama, home now! Me tired!" It was about 9:30pm so way past her bedtime. I told her that we were on our way home (or at least Nana and Papa's) and would be there soon. I followed up with something about daddy is driving as fast as he can. Then, she shouted, "Dada, faster!" She is so funny and so expressive. It's funny to hear her bark her commands. And, when she is tired, she tells us....

This morning (June 24, 2008) as Mia was changing from her PJs to her school clothes I noticed her PJs had several holes in them. I mentioned it to Mia and suggested that maybe we just toss them in the garbage as it was so torn and damaged (plus small on her) that it wouldn't be easy to repair. Mia nodded her head in agreement but then asked me to do one favor for her. She asked, "Mama, can you please just toss them after I go to school? If I'm not here, I won't see it and then I can't get sad."

One morning while we were near Notre Dame in Paris (May 29, 2008), a group of school kids walked by where we were sitting. I heard T say to Liam, "Don't they sound like the kids at the French school?" Gee, I wonder why? haha

Two nights ago (around March 27, 2008) while Terence was getting ready for bed he said, "Mama, you know what?" He always begins his stories like this. After I asked 'what?' he proceeded by telling me the sweetest thing. He said, "I really like being a kid". I have no idea where this came from or why it occured to him at this point but I think it was really sweet. I know earlier in the evening his stomach was hurting him a bit and I was nurturing and taking care of him. I think maybe that is why he decided that being a kid and having a mom (and dad) take care of him when he needed it was okay!

Mia woke up crying 2 mornings ago. She was actually whimpering. I gently stroked her back and kissed her face while whispering in her ear "Mia, you're dreaming. Wake up. It's okay. I'm here. It's mama and I'm here". I repeated these soothing words over and over until she half opened her eyes and started mumbling. I leaned in to try and hear her better. I asked her what was upsetting her. She then said a bit more clearly, "The Easter Bunny pulled my hair!" Oh no. Poor Mia. "Why did the Easter Bunny pull your hair?". "He came in through the bedroom door and pulled my hair while I was sleeping in bed!" I reassured her that the Easter Bunny would NEVER do such a thing. I explained how gentle and giving good ole EB is. However, this morning (2 days later) she asked me how many 'night-nights' until Easter. I told her it was 2 weeks away (aka about 14 night-nights away). She then looked relieved and then asked me if she could get her hair cut short!!

I've been wanting to add another funny Mia quote that occurred over our New Year's (Dec 2007/Jan 2008) ski holiday. One night when Mia was having trouble falling asleep she crawled in between Curt and I as we were still awake talking. She explained that she couldn't fall asleep so we told her she could stay in our bed until she did. She closed her eyes for a couple of minutes and then started smacking herself in the head with both hands. I asked her what she was doing and she replied that she couldn't get it to stop. Curt and I were confused and asked her to elaborate. She said, 'I can't get the voices in my head to stop'. It was so funny as I immediately knew it was her thinking that was in her head. Curt asked her what the 'voices' were saying and she said it sounded like 'blah, blah, blah, blah, blah'. Curt couldn't resist by saying that he knew the feeling!

Last week (January 10, 2008) Mia came with me to the Indian Embassy in Budapest to pick up Curt's and my passports with Indian visas. She always makes me laugh as she's full of questions but never discreet. One of those kids that have to announce to an entire room that she has to go to the bathroom - even though she's only talking to me. While at the Indian Embassy she looked around at this new environment taking everything in. She had so many questions, "Mommy, what's that for?" or "Why is that over there?" She then noticed two paintings. At about the same time as she noticed them one of the consulates sat down next to her and said 'hi'. She returned the gesture with a shy 'hi' and then turned back to me to ask me who those people are in that painting. I had no clue and didn't want to embarrass myself in front of this Indian embassy employee. So, I asked him if he could answer my daughter's question. He looked at her and said, "That's our president". So then I showed Mia the map of India and told her that was the country we were going to. She returned her attention to the man and the woman in the painting and asked who the woman was assuming it was the man who was the president (reminder - she's still not 5 years old). The nice man had to explain that it was the woman who was the president and the man was the prime minister. Then Mia had to ask why the president had the red dot on her forehead and the prime minister had the pretty blue scarf (turban) on his head. She then saw a statue of Ghandi and asked me who he was. I knew that answer but had trouble explaining in 5 year old language why he was so famous. On and on and on she went... She had all the employees listening and entertained as not only was she interested but she was extremely complimentary. Many kids would say, 'that's weird or strange' but Mia found it all interesting and beautiful. They loved that she thought the turban was pretty, the red dot looked nice on the president and in another very Indian photo the traditionally dressed Indian woman looked so pretty with her gold bangles, henna covered hands, and gold outfit. Phew, I was on the edge of my seat nervous she would say something that might not be so kind. Instead she left them all with a smile on their faces and a very proud mom!

Yesterday (Nov 23, 2007) Terence came up to me and said, "Mom, I know America is one of the newest countries in the world but which is the oldest?" I said, "I'm not really sure but what do you think?" This kid is too much. He replied, "I'm not sure either but I would guess China." Not sure if this is right or wrong but it amazes me that he can even come up with something that is a really good guess. Will google it tonight for sure! If anyone knows, please send me the answer.

Last night (Oct 19, 2007) Terence asked me the loaded question: Do we come back to earth after we die? We spent a long time after the girls went to bed talking about it. I explained how different people believed different things and what I believe is that we do. He then asked me if we'd still come back as a family. I realized he had tears in his eyes with worry that he'd have to be part of another family so I answered 'yes'.

Terence asked me the other day why so many ants were eating our tree. He asked how they got onto our property when we have a fence all around it.

In first grade Terence is working on days of the week and months of the year. I asked him to recite what he's learned in French. After he said the days of the week perfectly I asked if he knew them in English. He couldn't think of them but suddenly I heard Mia's voice without hesitation say, 'Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday... etc'

Ali's word of the day was purple yesterday. Okay, so it didn't really sound like purple but it did sound like 'poopoa'. We were both wearing purple shirts and I pointed it out to her. That's how she repeated it after me.